Five Love Languages and their truth

This week I took the Five Love Languages Test. 

My love language:

Quality Time

It's not surprising really. Especially when you look at what goes along with it.

1. Having them there when needed

Not sort of there, completely there

2. Having their undivided attention

When someone is needed they're really needed. Not an occasional short response to e-mail or text

Not paying more attention to the TV or other things going on.

Just need Complete and total focus.

3. Postponed activities can be especially painful

This includes not trying to make plans to spend time, or ignoring hints that you should get together, even if just for a little while.

All of that is so true of me. Sometimes I just need someone to be there for me. Completely there for me. I don't need them to talk back if we're face to face. Just acknowledgment that they're listening. That's really all. And with e-mails that's really all that's needed to. But brush off apologies of sorry I'm distracted... those just don't cut it.

Tonight was not the best Friday every. I hope that someday I'll have good Fridays week after week. That would be fabulous.

I also hope to be asked on a date more than once a month.

Until that day I shall work on perfecting my attitude of c'est la vie

And continue in my goals of remembering that even when there's no people there for you God and Christ are right there waiting for you to come to them.

Part of the problem really.

When I'm hurting bad I want someone to notice and take the time to come to me and care for me.

Here goes nothing